Introduction
At CreditLift, we understand the impact that debt can have on a person’s life. It can be overwhelming, stressful, and even isolating. As a friend or loved one of someone who is struggling with debt, you may be wondering how you can offer support and encouragement without making the situation worse.
Here are some practical tips for communicating with someone who is struggling with debt. We’ll provide alternative statements that are sensitive, and show genuine concern for their well-being even if you are frustrated with their circumstances or life choices. By using these tips, you can help your friend or loved one feel supported and empowered as they work towards financial stability.
What to Say:
Instead of saying “you should have known better,” try saying “I’m sorry you’re going through this. What can I do to help?”
Instead of saying “you’re being irresponsible,” try saying “I know it’s tough to manage finances sometimes. Have you considered talking to a financial counselor or advisor?”
Instead of saying “I don’t understand how you got into this mess,” try saying “I’m here for you and we’ll get through this together. Let’s make a plan.”
Instead of saying “just stop spending money,” try saying “let’s make a budget together and find ways to cut back on expenses.”
Instead of saying “you’ll never be able to pay this off,” try saying “I believe in you and we’ll find a way to tackle this debt.”
Instead of saying “you’re not alone in this,” try saying “I’m here for you and I’ll support you every step of the way.”
Instead of saying “you’re a financial disaster,” try saying “everyone goes through tough financial times. Let’s work together to find a solution.”
Instead of saying “why didn’t you save for this,” try saying “it’s hard to prepare for every financial emergency. Let’s focus on finding a solution now.”
Instead of saying “you’re in too deep,” try saying “it may take time, but we’ll find a way to get you back on track.”
Instead of saying “I told you so,” try saying “let’s learn from this experience and find ways to prevent similar situations in the future.”
Instead of saying “you’re just bad with money,” try saying “let’s work on building your financial literacy and finding ways to improve your financial situation.”
Instead of saying “I can’t believe you’re still struggling,” try saying “I know it’s a process, but I’m proud of you for taking steps towards financial stability.”
Instead of saying “you’ll never be able to buy a house or car,” try saying “let’s focus on tackling your debt now so you can achieve your long-term goals.”
Instead of saying “just get a better job,” try saying “let’s find ways to increase your income or reduce your expenses so you can better manage your debt.”
Instead of saying “you’re a lost cause,” try saying “I know you can do this, and I’m here to help you every step of the way.”
Remember, supporting someone through their struggles with debt is a process, and it takes time and effort to find the right solutions. By using these alternative statements and showing warm, sensitive, and genuine concern for your loved one’s well-being, you can help them feel supported and empowered as they work towards financial stability. If you or your loved one need additional support, CreditLift offers a variety of financial resources and services to help you manage your debt and improve your financial well-being.
